Separation Anxiety: How to Help Your Child Thrive at Drop-Off

For many families, the first day of preschool is filled with mixed emotions—excitement, pride, and yes, a few tears (from kids and parents). Separation anxiety is a completely normal part of early childhood, especially during major transitions like starting preschool. The good news? With patience, consistency, and the right support, most children adjust quickly and even look forward to coming to school.

At Little Steps Preschool, we work closely with families to make the drop-off process easier—for both you and your child. Here are some expert-backed tips to help your little one feel safe, confident, and happy about heading to school.

1. Keep Goodbyes Short and Sweet

Lingering at drop-off can actually increase anxiety. A warm, confident goodbye routine (a hug, a kiss, and a “See you before lunch!”) sends the message: You’re safe here, and I’ll be back soon.

At Little Steps: We help guide children gently into the classroom with fun activities and friendly faces waiting to greet them—so transitions feel calm and predictable.

2. Stay Calm and Positive

Children are incredibly tuned in to how you're feeling. If you’re nervous or unsure, they’ll pick up on it. Instead, model confidence with your body language and voice. Trust that they can do this—and they will!

3. Build a Predictable Routine

Consistency is comforting for young children. Creating a predictable morning routine (wake up, breakfast, dress, drop-off) helps your child know what to expect and makes transitions smoother over time.

4. Practice Separation Ahead of Time

Before the first day of school, try leaving your child with a trusted family member or babysitter for short periods. This gives them practice separating from you in a low-stress setting—and builds their independence.

5. Send Something Familiar

A small comfort item—like a family photo, stuffed animal, or even a bracelet from home—can ease anxiety and help your child feel connected to you during the day.

Our teachers at Little Steps are happy to help your child keep their special item close by, especially during those first few weeks.

6. Acknowledge Feelings—But Keep Moving Forward

It’s okay for your child to feel sad or nervous. Instead of trying to fix the feeling, validate it: “I know it’s hard to say goodbye. I miss you too, and I’ll see you before lunch.” Then follow through with your goodbye routine.

Children build confidence when they’re supported emotionally—but also given the chance to work through tough moments with gentle encouragement.

7. Trust the Process

Adjusting to preschool is a journey. Some kids jump in happily on day one, while others need a few weeks (or longer!) to feel fully comfortable. With a consistent schedule and compassionate teachers, your child will gain confidence.

💛 You're Not Alone—And We're Here to Help

At Little Steps Preschool, our experienced team is trained to support children through every phase of the transition. We believe preschool should be a warm, safe place where your child feels known, cared for, and celebrated.

If you’re feeling unsure about starting preschool, we invite you to come see our classrooms, meet our teachers, and ask any questions you have. We’re here for your child—and for you.

👉 Schedule a Tour Today
📞 Or text us at (385) 481-7150 to talk with our director.

Because at Little Steps, this is where wonder begins.

What to Look for in a Great Preschool: A Parent’s Checklist

Choosing the right preschool is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your child’s early years. A great preschool sets the stage not just for kindergarten readiness, but for a lifelong love of learning. With so many options out there, how can you tell which one is the right fit?

At Little Steps Preschool, we are excited to work with families just like yours—and we know what matters most. Here’s a practical checklist of what to look for when touring or researching preschools.

1. A Safe, Clean, and Welcoming Environment

Safety should be your top priority. Is the building secure? Are the classrooms clean and child-friendly? Does it feel like a place your child would want to spend time?

At Little Steps: We take safety seriously. Our secure entry system, clean facilities, and inviting learning spaces help your child feel right at home from day one.

2. Caring, Qualified Teachers

Early childhood educators are the heart of any preschool. Look for a team that is trained in child development, passionate about teaching, and genuinely warm with children.

At Little Steps: Our teachers aren’t just certified—they’re kind, attentive, and deeply invested in your child’s growth. Many of them are parents themselves and know how to create a nurturing classroom environment.

3. A Balanced, Developmentally Appropriate Curriculum

A quality preschool should strike a balance between play and structure. Activities should support academic learning and social-emotional development.

At Little Steps: Our play-based curriculum builds early literacy, numeracy, social skills, and creativity—so your child learns and loves learning.

4. Strong Communication with Families

Parents should feel informed and involved. Does the school communicate well? Do you know what your child is learning and how they’re doing?

At Little Steps: We keep you in the loop with daily updates, regular progress reports, and open-door communication with your child’s teacher.

5. A Focus on Social-Emotional Skills

Preschool isn’t just about ABCs—it’s also about learning to take turns, manage big feelings, and make friends.

At Little Steps: We help children develop confidence, empathy, and kindness through intentional, age-appropriate social-emotional learning.

6. Flexible Schedules That Work for You

Every family is different. The best preschools offer scheduling options that meet your needs.

At Little Steps: We offer part-time, and even Friday-only options to give your family flexibility without compromising quality.

💡 Bonus Tip: Trust Your Gut

After all the research and checklists, trust how you feel. When you walk into a preschool, does it feel right for your child? Are the children happy, engaged, and comfortable?

🎒 Ready to Take the Next Step?

If you’re looking for a preschool that checks all the boxes—and feels like a second home—we’d love to meet you.

👉 Schedule a Tour of Little Steps Preschool
Or text us at (385) 481-7150 to chat with our director and learn more.

Because at Little Steps, we believe this is where wonder begins.